Do Your Homework!

When one inquires of a graduate school, one usually looks up some information on a particular program. Most, if not all, universities/colleges have websites that describe their graduate programs. I'm going to tell of an experience I had one week ago which will explain why I mention this.

I attended a graduate school information day at Biola University. They offer a doctorate program in clinical psychology and I was interested in finding out more information. I had already been on the school's website so I knew a lot about this particular program. This information day was supposed to supply more information and an overall experience of what being a doctoral student is like at Biola.

During a Q&A session with current students in the program, a girl probably in her late 20's or early 30's raised her hand to ask a question. Let's name her Maria. She said that she realizes how important religion seems to be to this school and she was concerned about religion being "forced" on her. She mentioned that she was Catholic but doesn't follow her religion at all. When I heard her question and comments, I couldn't help but laugh to myself in disbelief. Let me explain why.

First, if Maria had done her homework properly she would have realized that Biola's clinical psychology program is one of the top integration programs in the country. What this means is that Biola strives to integrate psychology and theology. The program doesn't want to leave the Christian faith at the door when they enter the study of psychology. Furthermore, Biola is an evangelical Christian University. Biola stands for Bible Institute of Los Angeles (the school was originally located in Los Angeles). How could Maria be so oblivious to the faith commitment which Biola stands for? As part of the application process, incoming students must sign Biola's statement of faith which demonstrates the student's agreement to the statement. This is not juts for the clinical psychology program. It is for every undergraduate and graduate program at Biola.

Second, the student panel seemed to beat around the bush when some of them addressed her concern. One girl stated, "I have never felt like any of the professors have forced their views on me. They are very open and accepting." I forgot what another student said but he used a lot of words and time to state the obvious. The reality was this: Biola is a Christian university. That means the school stands for the essential doctrines of the faith and seeks to integrate the faith into every field of study. If Maria doesn't hold to the Christian faith, then this isn't the school for her. Short and sweet. That's what it is. There's plenty of secular schools and even nonsecular schools that don't take their faith serious. Those schools would be much better suited for Maria.

Third, what is Maria talking about when she says, "I don't want to have religion forced on me?" What does that even mean? Does she mean she doesn't want someone to demand for her to hold to a certain set of beliefs and if she doesn't then there will be negative consequences? Does she mean that she doesn't want to learn anything at all about Christianity? If she means the latter, then she needs to seek a different school because of what was mentioned earlier about Biola. If she means the former, then she's certainly misinformed about Biola and Christianity in general. Maybe there are Christian organizations that have dispersed negative consequences for not holding to Christian teaching. That was probably more common in the past centuries than it is today. I have never experienced anything like that and I know of no one who as.

If anything, it is the secular world who forces their beliefs on everyone else and no one complains about that. People are fired from jobs and students are thrown out of schools for not believing the same things as the secular world. The tyranny of secularism is alive and well today. I'm assuming that Maria went to a secular school for her undergraduate degree and I doubt she ever complained about her professors forcing their values and beliefs upon her. She said she's Catholic but doesn't follow it at all so why would she even be concerned about someone trying to change her religion anyway?

Maria should have done research on graduate schools and she should also reconsider her thoughts on what it means to "force" beliefs onto someone. She should think about what that really means and how much it is the secular world who is tyrannical in forcing everyone to believe as they do, not the Christians. Let's be honest.

Try Jesus?

I was working for a transportation company in Harlem when one day I picked up a large black woman whose age was probably in the mid to late 40's. She boarded the vehicle, said hello and sat down in a seat. She said nothing to me the entire trip. I pulled up to her destination which was a church and she prepared to exit. As she was exiting she said, "Jesus is coming soon. Just give Him try." I thanked her and pulled away after she was completely off. I began thinking about her comments.

What does it mean to "try Jesus?" Let's say I did take her upn her advice and I decided to give Him a try. Suppose that after a month or two I came to the conclusion that Jesus just isn't really my thing and I would like to get rid of Him. Is this acceptable? I think not.

Jesus isn't someone who needs to be tried. He's not a career, sport, shirt, or anything else that you give a whirl at and then do away with if you don't like what the particular thing is offering. We don't try Jesus; we cling to Him. We don't come to Him because we want all of our problems to disappear. We don't come to Him for "our best life now."

One should cling to Jesus because He is the savior. Everyone sins and is therefore considered to be a sinner. We all stand under judgment of a righteous and holy God who punishes sin. Jesus takes the place of the sinner so that the person will not have to face God on the day of judgment based on his own merits. No one can stand before God based on his own merits. Jesus can.

It's not about "trying" Jesus. It's about understanding who He is and what He offers to sinners.

A Psychoanalytic Experience Poem

This is a poem by Anna Russell that I found very interesting:



I went to my psychiatrist to be psychoanalyzed
To find out why I killed the cat and blacked my
husband's eyes.
He laid me on a downy couch to see what he could find,
And here is what he dredged up from my subconscious
mind:
When I was one, my mommy hid my dolly in a trunk,
And so it follows naturally that I am always drunk.
When I was two, I saw my father kiss the maid one day,
And that is why I suffer now from kleptomania.
At three, I had the feeling of ambivalence toward my
brothers,
And so it follows naturally I poison all my lovers.
But I am happy; now I've learned the lesson this has
taught;
That everything I do that's wrong is someone else's
fault.



I don't want to say anything more because I think the poem says enough.

Chick-Fil-A : Not Coming to a City Near You

I was watching television while in Florida and I saw what was going on with the fast-food restaurant Chik-Fil-A and homosexual activists. If I had to sum up in one word what my reaction was when I heard about this incident it would be: disgust.

The president of Chik-Fil-A, Dan Cathy, simply stated that he supported traditional marriage. The man didn't say anything against same-sex marriage, although it's not difficult to understand that Mr. Cathy is no supporter of same sex marriage. Now, because this man takes a different view from what many in society support, all kinds of foolishness, nonsense, and injustice are being committed against this man and his company.

Homosexual activists were talking about protesting at various Chick-Fil-A restaurants and I have heard of at least one being vandalized because of what is going on. Political officials in Chicago and Boston declared their opposition to Chick-Fil-A expanding into their cities because Mr. Cathy is not in favor of same-sex marriage. In other words, Mr. Cathy and his company are being DISCRIMINATED against because he still supports heterosexual marriage and he openly expresses this.

When I think of how intolerant, arrogant and unjust the homosexual bigots are I can't help but be disgusted. Allow me to clarify what I mean by "homosexual bigots" lest I be misquoted and my words used as ammunition for the silly notion that homosexuals are always persecuted. Within the category of homosexual bigot I include homosexuals as well as non-homosexuals. These are people who claim to be "tolerant" and "accepting" but only insofar as you agree with everything they stand for. They scream for "equality" and "fairness" yet do not extend it to others. Homosexual bigots are those people who treat those with whom they disagree the exact way they complain about being treated themselves. Can you imagine the outcry which would have occurred if a city openly declared they would not allow a particular same-sex marriage supporting business (e.g., Starbucks) to open a shop in the city because they support same-sex marriage? My goodness, one wouldn't be surprised if there were riots! In addition, the media would display it as a "righteous" cause since the city would be acting "intolerant."

This whole incident would be laughable if only it wasn't so widespread. This is the sad reality of what will probably keep continuing in U.S.A. I wouldn't be surprised if we come upon a time when individuals will be thrown in prison for expressing their disagreement regarding same-sex marriage. Or businesses being heavily fined or even shut down by the government because they either openly or implicitly affirm only heterosexual marriage. As I mentioned earlier, the only emotion that arises within me when I ponder these things is: disgust.

Counseling and Christianity

I recently read a book, Psychobabble: The Failure of Modern Psychology and the Biblical Alternative, and it cause me to reconsider my plans on applying to a doctorate program at a Christian University. The author, Richard Ganz, was a clinical psychologist working at a psychiatric hospital. One of his patients barely spoke and when he did, he claimed he was Jesus. Dr. Ganz had recently become a follower of Christ and when this Jesus imposter was in his office one day, Dr. Ganz showed him a verse in the Bible which caused the Jesus imposter to stop claiming he was Jesus; furthermore, this man asked Dr. Ganz how to become a Christian. Dr. Ganz prayed for him and the man went around the hospital telling everyone about Jesus. He reccommended that if anyone wanted to know more about becoming a Christian, talk to Dr. Ganz. Long story short, Dr. Ganz's supervisor gave him the choice to either stop discussing his Christian convictions with others or leave his job; Dr. Ganz chose the latter.

I admire this man because he stayed true to his convictions even though it cost him a good job with probably a well-paying salary. After this incident, Dr. Ganz enrolled at Westminster Theological Seminary and studied under Jay Adams, leader of the Biblical Counseling movement. Dr. Ganz became a pastor and began speaking out against the secular philosophy which pervades secular psychology.

I don't believe secular psychology is completely useless and neither does Dr. Ganz. Psychology has done a lot of good work in helping us understand the brain and human behavior. However, for quite a long time psychology has adopted philosophies which run contrary to a biblical worldview. For example, a biblical worldview requires one to understand what mankind's fundamental issue is and that is sin. Mankind is in rebellion against God. Man is fallen in his nature and needs to be reconciled to his creator. This is very different from what some secular psychologists think. It's popular in our culture to believe that mankind is good but just needs to look deeper within himself to find that good. The secular psychologist might attempt to bring that good out of an individual which he believes is lying deep down within. This example illustrates how different mankind is viewed. A biblical view sees mankind as deeply corrupted. Some secular philosophies view mankind as basically good. These two disparate starting points will greatly influence how one counsels others. 

Slow Down

I find myself always rushing in life. I mean rushing to get to the next thing. As soon as I get to the place where I wanted to be, I find that I want to move on to somewhere else. All the while I do not enjoy the road which lead me there, nor do I fully appreciate the place I am once I have gotten there.

I remember as a child I wanted to grow up in a hurry. Now that I'm older, I sometimes wish I would I could become a child again. I pursued a bachelor's degree and obtained it. While I was completing it, I could not wait until I finished so that I could pursue a Master's degree. Now that I have the bachelor's and am in a Master's program, I want to hurry up and finish the Master's so I can move on to doctoral work.

I think it is a mistake to want to rush one's life. This may sound cliched but it's not about just getting to the destination. It's also about the path one takes and enjoying the ride. If you keep moving from one thing to another while not enjoying the place where you're at right now then my suspicion is once you're at the end of your life, you'll be amazed and disappointed how fast your life went. You'll remember how much you hurried without truly simply enjoying the moment.

Sometimes the anticipation of a ride is more exciting than the ride itself.

Decisions

I recently read a book that described the type of culture which was present during the time of Jesus and the Apostles. This author makes the case that back then, an individual's relationship with siblings took precedence over one's relationship with one's spouse. He points to different passages of Scripture which exhort for believers to live as a surrogate family. This entails sharing possessions, time, and genuine brotherly love with other followers of Christ.
The author also mentions that life's biggest decisions (e.g., marriage, vocation, etc.) were meant to be made within the context of community. This means receiving input from other individuals who one knows well and whom is well known by this community. The individual's community can offer insight pertaining to one's strengths, weaknesses, talents, abilities, etc. The point being these decisions were not meant to be made in isolation.